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Sunday Surprise

Imagine my surprise this morning as I rolled over in the direction of my wall of windows around 6:15 AM, and a little hint of sunshine had peeked through the thin space between the curtains that failed to meet the night before. Because of that small distance, I was able to see the start of something beautiful — sunrise on a Sunday morning.

For some, this may signal a wake-up call. For me, it’s a brand new opportunity to experience God’s goodness and to be better than I was yesterday. It also transports me to a time long ago when I’d see that same sliver of sunshine from my bedroom window as a child, but back then, the sunrise was accompanied by a cockle-doodle-dooing soloist from Cousin Tootsie’s chicken coop behind our house. That rooster was our alarm clock for many years. I used to giggle to myself on those rare occasions when I’d see the sunrise before he did.

This morning I greeted the day with prayer and thanksgiving as always, but today was different. My prayer focus as God’s servant was about using criticism to help me grow. No one truly likes criticism — especially when it doesn’t come from a place of love; but even when it comes from so-called haters, their comments aren’t always inaccurate.

If you listen to constructive criticism, you will be at home among the wise. If you reject discipline, you only harm yourself; but if you listen to correction, you grow in understanding. ~Proverbs 15:31-32

Over the years, I’ve learned to take criticism from those who are direct with me, but I struggle to take it from those who can’t face me. I sort of revert to that kid on the playground who says Say it to my face. When I come to my senses though, I know that I can filter out the impurities from their critical messages, and use the rest for my growth.

Today I challenge you to listen to the critics and imagine yourself pouring their words into a sieve. What comes out is meant for your good. What remains in the sieve can be discarded, put in the trash, and placed at the curb on garbage day.

What are some things that you know you need to work on as you continue to grow? Scroll down and join me in the comments. Let’s fellowship and minister to each other. We’re so much better together. ❤


I started this blog as a means of chronicling my journey of Servant Leadership, but I believe that it has taken on a deeper purpose. As visitors read about my every day experiences as seen through a spiritual lens, I know that they’ll take the meat of my messages — the scriptures — and nourish themselves. I’m sure they’ll remember the stories and get to know me as a result, but the anecdotes are merely the vessels that store the meat. My hope is that you find encouragement here, and when you do, please share it with me. Encouragers need encouragement too.

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